Reminder:
everything in life is a snapshot!!
if someone looks at your life—-they’re only seeing a snapshot and a phase and season of it.
Example:
If you look at retired mom, who’s reading books and not working right now —-that’s the phase and snapshot RIGHT NOW. and if someone didn’t know her —they could think- awesome quiet easy life for her.
BUT,
If they look at her life when she raised kids as a single parent alone, by herself—- they would of thought- holy shit- that’s hard!!
If they would’ve looked at the snapshot of her life when she worked three jobs -they would say- oh my God!! Bad ass!!!
I was telling a client that too —--
don’t get caught up in the snapshot and the phase of your life- because life is constantly changing!!
I used to work seven days a week
6 AM to 10 PM every. single. day.
If someone looked at me at that time they could think wow -she’s a hard worker and thriving at her career.
If they look at me now, I cut back my hours BIG TIME + downsized a lot of STUFF, they would say wow different life!!
Look at someone after they had a baby ——they have extra body weight.
Look at someone before kids that works out all the time, they’re probably in better shape.
So the point is——never get your value & and you’re worth and your importance
from the size of your pants or anything that is surface + worldly,
Because it
Changes thru your life—-
Never get your value and how important and worthy you are from the amount of money in your account
or the title you have at your company
Or your age or personality
Or Your dress size/scale
Your looks
Or
If you have one 1 friend or 10 friends.
The list is endless.
Never get your value and level of how f&cking special you are-
from your house or your car because IT IS ALL FLEETING
CHANGING
SURFACE STUFF.
Throughout your life
every single day
practice and know your value.
On.
DEEP. ASS. LEVELS.
*your confidence and your worth and your value and how loved and important you are solely because—- you just are.*
PERiod.
You are born.
And I promise you that’s enough.
The world and other belief systems may tell you different.
And if you’ve been conditioned and taught different —-then it’s time to rewire THAT SH&T!
You matter & are important because you are breathing right now.
Your confidence
yourself esteem
your self worth and your value
your importance on earth has nothing to do with careers, grades, money, jewelry, personality, athletic ability, stuff, looks, and on and on.....
Most people know that on a mental level.
Yeah, yeah I know, I’m glad to be alive.
BUT
When it’s actually happening and they have to live it and EXPERIENCE IT & it’s personal——it is REAL!!!
It becomes A completely different experience!!!
all through life THINGS change.
Your life has phases, seasons, changes, and your situation is & can change and it’s just a snapshot:)
A phase. A season.
Know & believe YOU MATTER.
Let that be the constant.
{and teach kids that by mirroring it!}
Have a happy + motivating “I am loved
day “ just because you were born!!
Reminder:
everything in life is a snapshot!!
if someone looks at your life—-they’re only seeing a snapshot and a phase and season of it.
Example:
If you look at retired mom, who’s reading books and not working right now —-that’s the phase and snapshot RIGHT NOW. and if someone didn’t know her —they could think- awesome quiet easy life for her.
BUT,
If they look at her life when she raised kids as a single parent alone, by herself—- they would of thought- holy shit- that’s hard!!
If they would’ve looked at the snapshot of her life when she worked three jobs -they would say- oh my God!! Bad ass!!!
I was telling a client that too —--
don’t get caught up in the snapshot and the phase of your life- because life is constantly changing!!
I used to work seven days a week
6 AM to 10 PM every. single. day.
If someone looked at me at that time they could think wow -she’s a hard worker and thriving at her career.
If they look at me now, I cut back my hours BIG TIME + downsized a lot of STUFF, they would say wow different life!!
Look at someone after they had a baby ——they have extra body weight.
Look at someone before kids that works out all the time, they’re probably in better shape.
So the point is——never get your value & and you’re worth and your importance
from the size of your pants or anything that is surface + worldly,
Because it
Changes thru your life—-
Never get your value and how important and worthy you are from the amount of money in your account
or the title you have at your company
Or your age or personality
Or Your dress size/scale
Your looks
Or
If you have one 1 friend or 10 friends.
The list is endless.
Never get your value and level of how f&cking special you are-
from your house or your car because IT IS ALL FLEETING
CHANGING
SURFACE STUFF.
Throughout your life
every single day
practice and know your value.
On.
DEEP. ASS. LEVELS.
*your confidence and your worth and your value and how loved and important you are solely because—- you just are.*
PERiod.
You are born.
And I promise you that’s enough.
The world and other belief systems may tell you different.
And if you’ve been conditioned and taught different —-then it’s time to rewire THAT SH&T!
You matter & are important because you are breathing right now.
Your confidence
yourself esteem
your self worth and your value
your importance on earth has nothing to do with careers, grades, money, jewelry, personality, athletic ability, stuff, looks, and on and on.....
Most people know that on a mental level.
Yeah, yeah I know, I’m glad to be alive.
BUT
When it’s actually happening and they have to live it and EXPERIENCE IT & it’s personal——it is REAL!!!
It becomes A completely different experience!!!
all through life THINGS change.
Your life has phases, seasons, changes, and your situation is & can change and it’s just a snapshot:)
A phase. A season.
Know & believe YOU MATTER.
Let that be the constant.
{and teach kids that by mirroring it!}
Have a happy + motivating “I am loved
day “ just because you were born!!
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