A spiritual lesson I learned a long time ago...I share with you from deep love + light:
If you DON'T FEEL JOY. If Something doesn't click or feel right for you.
Examples:
If you don't feel "part" of your spouse/partner's world + it doesn't resonate with you + you feel disconnected.
You go to mommy play dates & don't dig the convo going on & it feels forced + fake.
Your relationships look transactional & you are not interested in that. You want more.
Everyone around you loves THIS & THAT, and you just don't.
Like maybe your over 50, & what typical 50 year olds do for fun, you are like really!!?? No thanks.
Maybe your 21,
Everyone in your age group enjoys a,b,c & you don't. You enjoy x,y,z.
You have a huge ass giraffe dream & everyone around you can't see, feel it, or understand it Bc they are fine + dandy living hamster dreams.
You haven't found a fitness class that jives with you.
Maybe your innovative ideas are constantly shut down at work.
Maybe your needs in any aspect of your life {Financial/ emotional /spiritual /social /personal /physical} have changed & your environment is supporting the old ones.
Alert! You are not crazy!
You are not wrong!
Your soul is talking.
It's singing.
Whispering.
Shouting.
When you have people places or things that do not support or fit or click with your soul- you can feel
Alone.
Question yourself.
Defeated.
And feel nuts!
You aren't!!
TIPS
1-when you honor your feelings and don't let people talk you out of them YOU ARE set free!
2-surround yourself with people places and things that get it + Vibe with you BC ITS EMPOWERING.
3- be a leader. If you are the only one seeing/feeling something, then stay strong & Brave & accept YOU are a leader & stay the course of honoring your soul.
4-I always say-
Regular life stuff will always go on like:
Being tired from a hard day of work
Sleepless nights with kids
Money stuff
Holy sh&t experiences
Cars breaking down
Having to do lists
Butting heads with someone
ETC ETC
**BUT- when you are at your core + foundation---around + with people places and things that vibe and fit with your spirit and soul***
A JOY IS ALWAYS HAPPENING.
It's a natural outcome of where you should be.
You should not day in and day out, feel like you're struggling or Battling upstream or constantly questioning your values, vision, feelings, & dreams.
Stay strong
stay the course
stay brave and let that frequency in your soul radiate out into the world so it attracts exactly what you need! Life is meant to be a gift!!