Our priorities change through our life.
The values and common interests that brought you together with different friends, careers, or experiences... change through your life.
You ever had a day, where you found yourself with 20 minutes of free time and that inner chatter says, "you should" write that thank you note, call that family member, swing by your neighbors, or call a friend back???
What about checking in with yourself and seeing what your priority is in that moment?
What does YOUR spirit need?
Sometimes it's to not do any of those things and just enjoy the 20 minutes to yourself and rest!
The world and people will tell you you should do this and you should do that.
Getting in tune with your needs, what your priorities are, and where you spend your energy, love, and time is your power and decision.
Then you take that shit and you practice it and practice it and practice it until you are confident and peaceful with it!!
What is of high value to you?
If someone/something is not high up on that list, it doesn't mean there's less love, care, or worth.
**It just means life has a ebb and flow and as your life changes so does everything else in relation.**
We all have spent chunks of our lives "being nice" and "doing the nice thing" and "being a good person".
( whatever the heck that means)
we gave given our energy and time to people/things that maybe weren't our priority
or added value to our lives.
We Did it out of guilt or believing that we had to.
Maybe we got caught up in the expectancy and routine of just doing what we have always done.
We are allowed to change it!!!
Honor yourself, your time, & your worth.
When feel like "you should” in that moment, write a thank you card, or call a person back when ———realllllly your priority is really that you need rest,
Or your priority is giving that time to a spouse or your kid or something that actually is high on your priority- value-love list. Do that instead.
If you feel guilty or like you’re being not nice because it’s just a condition habit that you have created—-say it out loud
write that shit down
tell someone you trust and get it out of your system!!
Fear is a liar.
Guilt is a liar.
Give yourself permission to check in with your needs,values, and priorities and act accordingly.
Let go of the "shoulds". They are draining.
Listen to your soul, your spirit force, & let it lead you with peace, simplicity, & favor.
Honor your worth. It
Starts with you.
You decide what you allow and don’t allow in your world-if you want peace and joy and *sincere genuine moments of confidence *and clarity *and purpose *and enjoyment* in life —-it starts with you!